As the clock ticks toward midnight on December 31st, we stand at a remarkable threshold. In a matter of seconds, one year comes to a close, and a new one begins. There’s something profound about this transition—a hard stop of the past followed by a fresh start of a beginning. It’s like crossing a finish line of one race only to hear the starting gun go off for the next race.

But before you rush headlong into the excitement of the new year, pause. The moments between endings and beginnings hold a special kind of power. This is your time to reflect, to refine, and to set your intentions for the journey ahead.


Reflection often begins with remembering, and in today’s world, our memories are often stored right in our pockets. Pull out your phone and swipe through your camera roll. If you’re like me, you’ll find hundreds—maybe thousands—of moments frozen in time.

What stories do those photos tell? A laughing friend, a quiet sunset, an achievement you worked so hard for—each one holds a memory worth celebrating or a lesson worth learning. Let these snapshots guide you as you reflect on the year behind you.

As you scroll, ask yourself:

  • What were my biggest accomplishments this year?
  • What challenges did I face, and how did I grow from them?
  • What brought me joy or fulfillment?
  • What am I most grateful for this year?
  • What surprised me about myself?

The Bible often speaks of refining as a metaphor for personal growth. Psalm 66:10 acknowledges that God uses tests and trials to refine His people:


“For you, God, tested us; you refined us like silver.”

And from Isaiah 48:10:


“See, I have refined you, though not as silver; I have tested you in the furnace of affliction.”

This process of refining is not always easy. Challenges, disappointments, and trials test us, but they also shape us. Take time to reflect on how the fires of the past year have molded you. What lessons have you learned? What habits held you back?

Refinement is a process, but it’s one that prepares us for what’s next.


Once you’ve reflected and refined, it’s time to dream. Don’t rush this part—sit down with a journal and your favorite pen. Maybe even treat yourself to a coffee date and work through these questions prayerfully and thoughtfully:

  • What do I want to focus on or improve in the coming year?
  • What habits or routines will help me grow?
  • What relationships do I want to nurture more?
  • What’s one new thing I want to try or learn?
  • What word, theme, or Bible verse will guide my year?

Choosing a guiding Bible verse can be a powerful anchor. Pick one that resonates with your heart and carry it with you as you step into the new year. Literally, carry it with you: write it on post-it notes and put them in your car, at your desk, in your kitchen, and on your bathroom mirror, so it’s visible every day.


The beauty of a new year is its untapped potential. It’s a time to celebrate what has been, refine what needs work, and step boldly into what’s to come. Let this be a year of growth, joy, and purpose—a year where you lean into both the challenges and the blessings.

So as the clock strikes midnight, don’t just look forward. Look back with gratitude, reflect with intention, and move forward with hope. Here’s to a year of refinement and renewal.

Happy New Year! 🎉


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4 comments on “A New Year: Reflect, Refine, and Renew”

  1. Kathy Reeder Avatar
    Kathy Reeder

    My 2024 my photos revealed a start of a year very sad with my sister, Diane going into the hospital on January 1. However, going forward I saw how she slowly progressed and even living with cancer, is doing fairly well. I saw how I spent so much time with family near and far and all the wonderful vacations that we took with friends and family. Although I had health issues in 2024 my photos and some journaling brought joy to me seeing all the happiness that helped me cope with health issues and the death of my brother in July. I am most thankful to God who never lets me “live” in sadness to long, but places a desire in me to seek Him in many ways and to spend time with my family and friends even when I don’t always feel like it. I’ve even developed new friends that was not part of my plan but God’s by being obedient to the nudges of His Spirit. Intentional time with family, friends, in the Word of God, prayer, worship, service, nature and listening to spiritual music is how I receive joy and peace in life. I could not survive this life without the love of Jesus deep within my soul. I am grateful for this time to reflect upon every month of 2024 and see how God has been with me in every joy and challenge and refining me in trusting Him more, loving Him more, praising Him more and being obedient in places I’d rather not go but am blessed by His Spirit and the new things and people I’ve encountered on the journey!

    Renew and Dream! That will take much time to meditate upon and listen to the voice of God. And, I will. The first verse that popped in my mind was Proverbs 3:5-6. I will trust God as I ponder the new year and embrace the journey with its inevitable challenges and joys!

    Thank you for this very meaningful exercise. It gives hope for the future when I look back on the ways God has been with me all year in every joy and challenge!

    Romans 12:12 ~ “Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.”

    Mark and Susan, may the Lord bless you both, your ministry and family … always! 🙏🏻❤️

    1. Susan Larimer Avatar
      Susan Larimer

      Such a beautiful written response to the article. Thank you so much for sharing your 2024, Kathy; the ups and the downs. Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Amen!

  2. Eva Roudebush Avatar
    Eva Roudebush

    YES-PROFOUND! I actually read through this article twice. I’ve never looked at the end of a year and the beginning of the new year in this way before. Thank you for opening my eyes.

    1. Susan Larimer Avatar
      Susan Larimer

      Thanks so much for taking the time to read this… TWICE! Here’s to an amazing 2025, Eva!

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